Going through a break up is one of the hardest things to handle. I know because I have been there before. Most of the time all my efforts were for not because the actions I took were the reasons I never got a second chance. There are things that you can do to win back the love of your life.
The sad truth is that most people are not really willing to do what it takes to win back the love of their life. It is always easier to mope around and feel sorry for yourself. All this will do is make you look pathetic to your ex and to everyone in your life. If pity is what your looking for, then keep up with what your doing. If you are serious about getting your ex lover back in your arms then you are in for some work.
It is not back breaking labor that will win them back even though this would probably do wonders for you. What needs to happen to get yourself in a position to win them back is to let them go. I know this sounds like and old cliche, but its the truth. You will get nothing accomplished by calling them 10 times a day or texting them apologies and excuses all day. You will only be coming across as pathetic and confirming because they left you in the first place. Let them know that you agree with the breakup and that you agree that its the best for the both of you. Then make this your last communication with them for an extended period of time. This will put you in a better position because you have turned it from them dumping you to an mutual agreement as to whats best. Do not worry, if you mean anything to them and have a chance of getting back together, then they will not go running around and sleeping with everyone in sight since you are no longer in their life.
Source by Steven Lane